In the every day world, adults strive to share good advice with teens based on years of experience. In the every day world, teenagers strive to find out about the world in their own unique way. Despite good parental intentions, teens will test out what they think and feel about their lives. In fact, it is the teenager's job to critique the advice and perspectives of parents (authors, teachers broadcasters, peers, etc.) and to weigh all of this input against what they personally learn about themselves, others, and the world around them.

Middle school and high school age youngsters learn to reflect on their origins, choices, decisions and directions; improve relationships with peers and adults; and develop skills to effectively cope with life stressors.

Dr. May also helps family members examine their family system and begin to gain the clarity and perspective to recognize and emphasize the healthy patterns and change the destructive and ineffective ones.